I am a passionate Tantra Massage Therapist offering sessions in Stockholm, Sweden.

It has come to my attention that there is considerable confusion among Tantra-curious potential clients about what Yoni and Lingam massage is, and why it is included in the session.

I have written in capital letters on my booking site to contact me before booking. There is a reason for this: I want to make sure that you understand what a Tantra Massage is, and why Yoni and Lingam Massage may be included. I never promise that I will do it. The reason is that you might not be ready for it or have the maturity to receive it. It is, however, usually done, as I get a good sense of your level of maturity during our initial phone call prior to the session.

So what does it mean – having the maturity to receive?

For example, if your intention is to experience an erotic massage, then we are not a good match. This is not what I offer. In fact, a Tantra Massage is very far from this. I understand that Tantra Massage can be offered in different ways depending on the therapist, and I can only describe how I perform the massage.

Picture your whole body as your temple – your incredibly beautiful temple carrying you through the ups and downs of life every day. You might get tension in your body, aches, stomach pain, migraines, and so on. Well, the same thing happens energetically in your energy body, surrounding your physical body. In Tantra, we believe that illness always starts in the energy body. When you get an energetic blockage, it will eventually spill over to your physical body as well, giving you physical symptoms.

During a Tantra Massage session, my aim is to release stuck energy and spread it around and upwards, elevating your consciousness. So picture the movement of lower energy and how it is guided upwards.

Where do you think I take this potent energy from? Yes, that’s right – from the genitals. They are filled with incredibly powerful energy, and I use this energy for a stronger energetic effect in the massage.

My lovely headteacher once said something that lingers in my mind: Like all great artists signing their finished work, so did God. He signed His name on our genitals. That’s why they are so divine. This is a very spiritual statement, and it is true.

I sometimes work with men who have gone through surgery and had parts of, or even all, of their prostate removed. The prostate is located precisely at the level of the first energy center, and it is the human battery. When you lose your battery, you ultimately lose your energy. There is nothing left to work with. However, there is hope, so don’t feel defeated. But you need to make many lifestyle changes: detox your body, change your diet, come for multiple Tantra Massage sessions, and so on.

I recently heard from a friend about a man who, I believe, had prostate surgery and didn’t want anything to do with Tantra Massage, as it is so often associated with buying sex. This gave me the motivation to set things straight. A Tantra Massage is far from a sexual favor. In fact, the Lingam Massage does not feel particularly erotic. It involves powerful and intense movements done to activate energy. No ejaculation is allowed. Ever! It is not even possible to do some of the moves when the Lingam is erect, and the purpose is not to have an erection during the session. An erection only indicates the receiver’s lack of energy control, showing that the energy is still down there when it is supposed to rise, open the heart, and give spiritual insights.

Many men I work with regularly have noticed that over time their stamina improves and they are better able to control themselves and their ejaculation. This is a good sign that the sessions are effective.

For those of you curious and interested in booking a Tantra Massage, please know this in advance: Tantra Massage is not about receiving pleasure solely for the sake of pleasure. There is no ejaculation allowed. The prostate is not massaged, and I do not offer body-to-body massage. This is something beautiful and sensual to share with someone with whom you have an intimate relationship. In a Tantra Massage session, you are the receiver. You are naked. I am the giver, and I remain clothed.

Having said all this, a Tantra Massage does awaken sexual energy and it can feel incredibly erotic, pleasurable, and sensual. This, of course, is welcomed and encouraged, but the purpose of the massage is not only pleasure – it is healing through pleasure. I like that saying.

Regarding your level of maturity, we have all been brought up differently, with certain immature thoughts and feelings about nudity, lovemaking, and genitals. I believe it is time to change this now. Your naked body is your beautiful temple. You should thrive in it, love it, and give love to it in different ways every day – through your food choices, exercise, cleanliness, touch, and so on. Remember what I said earlier about God’s signature in our genitals – isn’t that a strong reason to care for them a little extra? Give them love, attention, care, and pleasure. Fall in love with them. They are simply divine.

If you feel this resonates with you I warmly welcome a call from you.

With love / Radhika.